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Growing Up While Staying Soft...

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The search of love...

We spend so much of our lives searching for love, don’t we? Searching in the corners of crowded rooms, in the vacant stares of strangers on trains, in the spaces between text messages, and in the deafening silences of lonely nights. It’s as though we are born with this ache inside us—a deep, hollow yearning to be seen, to be held, to be chosen. We become explorers of hearts, voyaging through25 megawatts (MW) fleeting connections and empty promises, convincing ourselves that the next person, the next moment, the next embrace will somehow complete the puzzle we’ve been desperately trying to piece together. But what if the chase is the problem? What if love is not something you hunt down, not a prize at the end of a maze, but rather something that simply is? Perhaps love is like the wind—it cannot be caught, cannot be possessed, and the harder you grip for it, the more it slips through your fingers. And so, one day, you wake up exhausted from the search, broken by the weight of unmet ...

Don't Give Up, No Matter Your Age!

Don’t Give Up, No Matter Your Age: Life's Timeless Potential In a world that often glorifies youthful success, it’s easy to feel like opportunities fade as the years pass. But the truth is, life is not a race, and success doesn’t have an expiry date. Whether you’re 18 or 80, there’s always time to chase your dreams, explore new paths, and create a fulfilling life. Age Is Just a Number Society often imposes timelines—graduate by 22, find your dream job by 30, have a family by 35, and retire by 60. But life doesn’t follow a universal script. Take Vera Wang, for instance. She became a world-renowned fashion designer only after the age of 40. Colonel Sanders started KFC when he was 65. These stories remind us that greatness is not bound by age but by determination and perseverance. Every stage of life brings unique strengths. Youth offers energy and curiosity, while age provides wisdom and clarity. Embracing where you are allows you to see possibilities you may have overlooked before. ...

Dealing with rejection -an 18-year olds perspective

Rejection. Even the word sounds harsh. Whether it's not getting into the school you wanted, missing out on a job opportunity, or being turned down for something you really cared about, rejection stings. As an 18-year-old, I’m in this weird phase of life where expectations are high, but reality sometimes falls short. Here's the thing, though: rejection is more than just a bump in the road. It’s a lesson wrapped in discomfort, and it’s something everyone goes through. 1. Rejection Doesn't Define You When you get rejected, it can feel like the world is telling you that you’re not good enough. But let’s be real: rejection is just one outcome of many possibilities. Whether it’s a college, a job, or any other opportunity, the decision doesn't reflect your worth as a person. Sometimes, it’s just about timing, or someone else was a better fit for that moment. 2. Feel Your Emotions It’s okay to be upset, angry, or disappointed. Don’t let anyone tell you to just “get over it.” Si...

The Unseen Tug of Being 18

There’s something strange about being 18. It’s like standing at the edge of a cliff, looking out at a world full of possibilities, but feeling the weight of everything pulling you in different directions. It’s exciting, sure—but it’s also terrifying. Everyone talks about how you’re stepping into adulthood, but what no one seems to mention is how you still feel like a kid, unsure of what’s next. I remember when I was younger, I couldn’t wait to grow up. It felt like all the freedom I ever wanted was just waiting for me. I could make my own decisions, live my own life, and do everything my way. But now that I’m here, I realize that freedom comes with a thousand choices. And the thing is, no one tells you how to make them. Take the future, for example. People keep asking me what I want to do with my life. Like I’m supposed to have this big, clear picture of where I’m headed. But honestly? Some days, I feel like I’m just guessing. There’s this pressure to have it all figured out, to be amb...

To The Men Who Aren't Afraid

I've grown up thinking about the men who aren't afraid to be sensitive. I'm afraid I didn't find alot of them. I have seen men be vulnerable and break down, but behaviourally, within seconds they restrain themselves from that expression as if something in their heads asked them not to.  That "something" is our society, our upbringing, and the deeply ingrained belief that vulnerability is a sign of weakness, especially for men. From a young age, boys are taught to "toughen up" and to avoid showing emotions like sadness or fear.  As they grow older, they learn to compartmentalize, hiding their true feelings behind. There's a silent battle that many men fight alone, believing they have no choice but to carry the weight of the world without showing cracks. It’s time we create spaces where men can feel safe to express themselves without judgment, spaces where emotions are seen as a strength, not a flaw. Only then can we break free from the chains of o...